MMG Gripes

I was chatting online with an old friend and before any greetings, he dived right into the question that possibly everyone in anonymous chat rooms would ask ... "Have you had sex?" Do I give off some vibe that says "Please ask whatever you want especially on sex" I get asked that question a lot. I wonder why? I may be open-minded but I still get a little red in the face when I'm asked that point blank. I've got very "helpful" offers from friends who would like to help me enjoy this physical activity minus the proverbial strings. Forgive me if I'm wrong but I thought sex was more than just physical ... it's supposed to be a union on all levels: physical, emotional and mental to really be enjoyed? How can you have sex and not have any attached strings? I think I prefer the other term better; to make love. Sounds a little better. Well, managed to get out of that sticky question by redirecting the focus onto him instead. It's nice to know that when we can get guys to talk about themselves; they kinda forget what they wanted in the first place :) Anyway, I like the strings ... I prefer the reciprocal of the no strings attached relationship; the "no sex just strings attached relationship"

I've also got an unflattering remark made about me right to my face by a female colleague; one about it shouldn't be a problem for me to take another woman's boyfriend. She was trying to make it sound like I'm some kind of a guy magnet but somehow all I'm hearing is I'm a bitch who wouldn't give a hoot about another woman's feelings. Hey, I care ok? FYI, I've never knowingly taken anyone's boyfriends. My ex boyfriends are the ones taken by other women. If it's not true love, why stress about it? I willingly let go anyway. You've got to create your own happiness first. I'm not indifferent; I'm practical.

Why is it that when a woman is slightly confident that people think they're bitches? We're just women who love ourselves and know what we want. If that comes off as ball-busting to you, then you never had balls in the first place ... dedicated to both genders of the insensitive pricks out there